Bible Study Archives - Sharla Fritz

Discover Soul Rest with a New Course

What do you do when you feel exhausted and empty? Spent and Stressed? Out-of-sorts and out-of-gas?

You might look for relief in a good night’s sleep or an extended vacation.

But sometimes physical rest or a weekend away doesn’t provide the relief we crave. What we really need is soul rest.

We need soul rest because the world moves at a hurried, harried pace.

We need it because Satan continually plants seeds of doubt and distraction that erode our peace.

We need it because our culture worships productivity and idolizes busyness.

My Journey to Soul Rest

For years I lived a hurried, harried life. Not only did I schedule nearly every minute of the day, but I worked like my life depended on it–even when it didn’t. I strove and struggled for peace–which I thought would come when I had accomplished all my goals or when I had done “enough”.

But I discovered that God does not intend us to live that way.

I discovered that the Father offers me soul rest–the kind of rest that is more than a good night’s sleep or even an extended vacation. In Him, I found a rest characterized by a deep peace and a sense of wholeness. Even more surprising, I learned that I didn’t need to earn this rest. God graciously offers this kind of rest and His Word showed me how to receive it.

Now my life may still have hectic days and weeks, sometimes I still cram too much into my schedule. But I’ve learned to lean on God instead of myself. I’ve adopted God’s life-giving rhythms that revive my weary soul.

Discover Soul Rest Course

In my new Discover Soul Rest digital course, I share what I’ve learned so that you can find soul rest, too. In this course, you will study five biblical words for rest from the original Greek and Hebrew. Examining these words will help you understand God’s definition of rest and how He generously offers it to you. You will also learn soul-rest practices that will keep your heart attuned to God’s rhythm for life.

Here’s a two-minute sneak peek of the course.

This course will help you:

  • learn God’s life rhythm of rest
  • defeat the enemies of rest
  • find an antidote to anxiety
  • explore the practice of letting go
  • use God’s Word as a tool for soul rest
  • learn soul-rest practices that will lead you into God’s presence where you can receive soul rest

In the Discover Soul Rest course you will get:

  • 5 Units–each focusing on a biblical word for rest from the original Hebrew and Greek
  • 10 teaching videos–each 10-12 minutes long
  • 10 downloadable worksheets–with key takeaways and Bible study practices
  • 25+ soul-rest practices–all based on God’s Word

Once you purchase the course you will have access to all the videos and worksheets. You can complete the course at your own pace and come back to review the materials again and again.

If you would like to slow down and learn the rhythms of rest, I hope you will consider taking this course. 

Fight Against Hurry and Find Soul Rest

My prayer is that participants in this course will have the tools to fight against the world’s demand for productivity and Satan’s weapons of comparison and hurry. I pray they will learn to carve out time to pull away from the world and sit in God’s presence long enough for Him to give them rest.

To find out more and to purchase the course, click the button below.

Success 101: A Biblical Primer on Success

Ever wonder about God’s view of success? His Word gives excellent instruction on the topic. Here’s a biblical primer on success. Start reading here and then head over to iBelieve.com for the full article.

Signing up for any college course means studying. You listen to lectures. Read textbooks. Conduct research online. Education helps you become an expert in your field.

Learning about success is much the same. We can sign up for webinars about productivity. Listen to leadership podcasts. Buy one of the 80,000 books on success that online retailers have to offer. 

But the best source for wisdom on success is found in a book you probably already own—the Bible. Inside this familiar book, you can find timeless principles about achievement, accomplishment, and prosperity. The values taught in Scripture are just as true today as they were when they were written thousands of years ago.

Read God’s textbook and learn His view of success. Below, you’ll find eight passages on the subject—plus a few questions to get you thinking about how you can apply God’s perspective to your work and personal success:

Proverbs 3:3-5

“Let not steadfast love and faithfulness forsake you;

    bind them around your neck;

    write them on the tablet of your heart.

So you will find favor and good success

    in the sight of God and man.

Trust in the Lord with all your heart,

    and do not lean on your own understanding.” (ESV)

The world’s formula for success may be: Claw your way to the top. Don’t worry about stepping on others’ toes on the way up. And don’t depend on anyone else for your success. 

But the Bible says love and faithfulness are keys to success. Hesed, the Hebrew word for love used in this verse, is characterized by strength and kindness. Instead of clawing our way to the top, God asks us to show grace and consideration to others. And faithfulness leads to success because people will turn to reliable and stable workers rather than those who seem changeable and erratic.

This passage also instructs us to trust and rely on God instead of ourselves. When we depend on the Lord’s wisdom instead of our limited understanding, we have an advantage over others. Plus, wholeheartedly leaning on God will make you successful in His eyes.

Questions to consider:

How can you apply steadfast love and faithfulness to your work?

What do you need to trust God with regarding your job or home responsibilities?

Where have you perhaps leaned on your own abilities instead of God? How can you change this?

Proverbs 16:3

“Commit your work to the Lord,
    and your plans will be established.” (ESV)

In our world, it seems like whatever success we have totally hinges on our efforts. So we work longer and longer hours to get ahead. We take on more and more responsibility to attract praise from our bosses.

But God says we can commit our work to Him. Another version of the Bible says it this way, “Roll your works upon the Lord [commit and trust them wholly to Him]” (Proverbs 16:3 AMPC). Our heavenly Father invites us to roll all our burdens of balancing budgets and managing schedules onto Him. We can trust Him to help us with everything from gigantic corporate projects to our weekly menu planning. God will establish our plans when we first go to Him in prayer and ask Him to show us His will.

Questions to consider:

What work and plans do you want to commit to the Lord?

How does faith make a difference in your work?

How does praying that God’s will be done change your attitude about your plans?

Go to iBelieve.com to continue reading a biblical primer on success. There you’ll fine 7 more Scripture passages and lessons about success.

For When You Fall Flat

When you fail or mess up, you may wonder if Christ will give up on you. But the life of the apostle Peter can give you hope when you fall flat.

Peter’s life with Jesus wasn’t a long string of successes. The bold, impulsive disciple got himself into a load of trouble. And often his failures began with stupendous success before he fell flat.

Peter’s Big Failure

In the Garden of Gethsemane, Peter began with swagger but experienced failure. On the way to Jesus’ favorite prayer spot, Jesus had warned the disciples that all of them would desert Him. He specifically told Peter, “Truly, I tell you, this very night, before the rooster crows, you will deny Me three times” (Matthew 26:34). Plucky Peter couldn’t even imagine this scenario. He boasted, “Even if I must die with You, I will not deny You!” (Matthew 26:35).

After that bit of bravado, Peter was probably as surprised as anyone at the events that happened only a few hours later. When Judas came with a crowd of men with clubs and swords, Peter must have watched in confusion as Jesus allowed them to tie His hands and lead Him away.

Peter used the last bit of his courage to follow Jesus at a distance as the guards led Him to the home of the high priest. Perhaps everything would have been fine if one sassy little servant girl hadn’t stared at Peter and said, “You also were with Jesus the Galilean” (Matthew 26:69). Peter tried to evade her accusation by saying, “I do not know what you mean” (Matthew 26:70).

Peter then stepped away from the fire and stood at the entrance of the courtyard. Did his conscience bother him a bit? Did he feel he was in danger staying so close to Jesus? Did he hope to avoid any more questions? Unfortunately, stepping away didn’t stop the accusations. Another servant girl saw Peter in the doorway and announced to everyone nearby, “This man was with Jesus of Nazareth” (Matthew 26:71). Peter’s denial then escalated. He replied with an oath, “I do not know the man” (Matthew 26:72).

An hour passed. What went through Peter’s mind during those sixty minutes? Did he want to run away, yet couldn’t bear to leave Jesus? Did he realize what he had done? Or was he too worried about Jesus and his own safety for the words that he had spoken to register? At any rate, another person came up to Peter and said, “Certainly you too are one of them, for your accent betrays you” (Matthew 26:73). Once more Peter’s failure progressed, “He began to invoke a curse on himself and to swear, ‘I do not know the man’” (Matthew 26:74). In other words, he said, “May a curse come on me if I’m lying. I promise I don’t know the man.” Before Peter’s sentence ended, a rooster crowed.

This account shows us how God included stories of human failure in His Word to comfort us. Although Jesus saw Peter at his worst and sees us when we fail, He still marched to the cross to take the punishment we all deserved.

When We Have Failed, We Can Still Run To Jesus.

Notice I didn’t write if we have failed but when we have failed. Because of our humanness, we will often trip up in following God’s commands. We will say the wrong thing or neglect to do the right thing. Maybe our collapse won’t match the magnitude of Judas’s or Peter’s, but we will experience significant failure. And when fall flat, we need to realize we have a choice. We can wallow in guilt like Judas did. Or we can discover forgiveness like Peter found.

In studying the life of Peter, I recently noticed an important detail in the Gospel of Luke. When the two men on the road to Emmaus returned to Jerusalem to tell the disciples about seeing the resurrected Savior, Jesus’ disciples told the men from Emmaus, “The Lord has risen indeed and has appeared to Simon!” (Luke 24:34). That little sentence tells us Jesus met Peter privately before He appeared to the whole group of disciples.

Scripture doesn’t give us any details of the meeting, yet we can imagine what that meeting might have been like. Peter a mess of joy at seeing Jesus and grief at knowing he had disappointed His Friend. Jesus holding out His nail-scarred hands to Peter, letting him know his failure did not mean an end to their relationship. I find it so touching that Jesus took time for a personal and private meeting to reassure the repentant disciple of His love.

At times we all need this reassurance. We may consider our failures too big for forgiveness and we begin to sink in shame. One woman I know constantly struggles with guilt even though all her friends would describe her as a wonderful person. Intellectually, she knows Jesus’ death has paid for all her wrongs, yet she can’t seem to accept that reality in a way that frees her from the burden of self-reproach. When I told her about Jesus’ private meeting with Peter to reassure him of complete forgiveness, she said, “Jesus needs to do that for me, too.” And I replied, “Oh, but He has! Jesus has given reminders of His forgiveness throughout His Word!” Here are a few:

If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. (1 John 1:9)

There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. (Romans 8:1)

As far as the east is from the west, so far does He remove our transgressions from us. (Psalm 103:12)

When you feel weighed down by your guilt, confess your sin and accept the pardon Jesus offers. Let Him remove the sin from your heart and the burden of shame from your shoulders. Then run to Him with the joy of forgiveness.

God’s Measure of Success

God doesn’t measure our success by our perfection. He instead invites us to a successful life of living joyfully forgiven. I love the story in John 21 where Jesus met the disciples at the Sea of Galilee after His resurrection. When the disciples lowered their nets on the right side of the boat at the suggestion of the stranger on the beach and pulled up so many fish they couldn’t haul in the net, John recognized the stranger as Jesus. But it was Peter—too impatient to wait for the boat to reach the shore—who jumped in and swam to Jesus. He no longer shrank back in fear, wondering what Jesus might think of him. He was joyfully forgiven!

Aren’t you thankful that Jesus chose bumbling Peter as a disciple? Because of Peter’s story, we find confidence in the truth that when we have failed, we can still run (or walk or crawl or even swim) to Jesus, the source of mercy and grace.

This post is adapted from my new book, Measured by Grace: How God Defines Success. If you’ve ever felt like your life is a mess or that it’s too small to make any difference, read how God defines success!

This book studies eight “failures” in the Bible–people who either made a big mess of their lives or simply didn’t look like a success in the eyes of the world. By examining their lives you’ll discover that God redeems our failures and doesn’t measure us by wealth or fame. He measures us by His grace!

You can find out more about this eight-week Bible study book and download a FREE chapter here.


God Uses The Least Likely To Succeed

We might think that God only uses perfect people, but He often uses those least likely to succeed.

Have you ever met someone and thought, That person will go places! I remember thinking that about one of my fellow students in college. We were both music majors and sang in the same choir. But this woman also had talents in the theater and starred in many of the university’s drama productions. While everyone on the stage of one of those shows did an admirable job, this woman outshone them all. The other actors knew their lines and delivered them well, but she became her character.

After graduation, I heard she went to the famed Yale School of Drama. A few years later, our university alumni paper highlighted her career on Broadway. “I knew she would make it!” I said when I read the article. Since then, I’ve seen her in movies and television shows. My fellow classmate whom I thought “most likely to succeed” actually did!

The Bible tells a story about a Samaritan woman who probably would never have received the title “Most Likely to Succeed.” Just the opposite. A woman with multiple failed marriages, she couldn’t seem to keep a husband. And when Jesus met her at a well near her town of Sychar, she lived with a man who didn’t even give her the dignity of legal marriage.

But isn’t it just like Jesus to choose “the least likely to succeed”? He could have chosen to meet with kings or governors, high priests or scribes. Yet He chose a woman who had experienced prejudice and rejection. Someone who perhaps didn’t have a single friend. She came to the community well at noon, probably to avoid the judging eyes of her neighbors. Yet her solitary visit to the community well became the perfect time for Jesus to tell her the Good News about living water.

What do we do when life feels like a string of failures? We see from the life of the woman at the well that even when we have multiple strikes against us, God doesn’t shout, “You’re out!” Her story teaches us about success in God’s kingdom.

Success Does Not Depend On Our Gender, Race, Or Reputation.

The woman at the well had nothing to qualify her for success in her culture. As a female, she was considered a second-class citizen, one not worthy to learn about things of God. Her Samaritan race was considered inferior because of its mixed ancestry. And her reputation? Well, let’s just say her neighbors probably didn’t invite her to the neighborhood barbecues.

Yet Jesus timed His journey to Galilee to meet with the woman, to teach her about living water, and to tell her about worshiping in spirit and truth. He chose to reveal His true identity to someone most people overlooked. He picked her to tell other Samaritans about the Savior of the world. “Come and see,” she told the people of Sychar. We don’t need a degree in theology to share our faith. We can simply tell others about the difference the Messiah makes in our lives.

You might think your gender or race limits the influence you have. Or that your lack of a big platform means your reach will be small. You might believe your reputation or past will prevent others from listening to you. If so, remember that Jesus used a woman with all of these strikes against her to bring many people to faith. Jesus can use you too, right where you are.

Multiple Failures Do Not Disqualify Us From Success In God’s Kingdom.

The Samaritan woman had numerous failures, including the loss of five husbands. “The Jews held that a woman might be divorced twice or at the most three times. If the Samaritans had the same standard, this woman’s life had been exceedingly immoral.” Of course, we don’t know her backstory, but probably everyone in her community would have viewed her as a repeat offender. Did the woman see herself the same way? Men discarded her. Women turned away. Maybe she thought she had messed up too many times for God to forgive her.

Sometimes our culture views God as a sort of cosmic scale. If my good deeds outweigh the bad, people think, then I’ll go to heaven. Of course, this isn’t true. One tiny sin tips the scale to our eternal punishment as much as ten thousand sins. Only God’s grace can tip the scale in our favor. Jesus’ death and resurrection outweigh all of our sins and enable us to live with Him forever.

God’s Measure of Success

Although most of us believe the truth of God’s grace, we might not live it. We may think, If my church knew how many times I snapped at my kids this week, they wouldn’t let me in. Or, If my Bible study friends knew how many men I was with in college, they would ask me to leave. While it’s true we humans often act in harsh judgment of others, we see in the Samaritan woman’s story that Jesus doesn’t see multiple failures as a deal breaker. When we trust in His saving work on the cross, He wipes out millions of sins as easily as He erases one. And when He has wiped them away, He sees us as clean as new-fallen snow. He used the woman with five failed marriages to change a whole town. However many times you’ve messed up, He still calls you to have faith in Him and still uses you to influence your world.

In our culture, the wealthy, the privileged, and the supertalented succeed. Those who experience even a little success are more likely to get noticed. Once they’ve made it to the first rung of the ladder of achievement, they have a better chance of climbing to the top.

But in God’s kingdom, we see over and over again how Jesus picks the least likely. He welcomes those the world has shunned. He chooses to reveal Himself to people society ignores or has rejected. God’s love doesn’t depend on our perfection for we are measured by grace. The Lord uses people with multiple failures for staggering success in His kingdom.

This post is adapted from my new book, Measured by Grace: How God Defines Success. If you’ve ever felt like your life is a mess or that it’s too small to make any difference, read how God defines success!

This book studies eight “failures” in the Bible–people who either made a big mess of their lives or simply didn’t look like a success in the eyes of the world. By examining their lives you’ll discover that God redeems our failures and doesn’t measure us by wealth or fame. He measures us by His grace!

You can find out more about this eight-week Bible study book and download a FREE chapter here.

God Uses Flawed People

I love how God uses flawed people. How the Lord doesn’t give up on those the world labels also-rans, might-have-beens, and good-for-nothings. We see this over and over again in the stories of Bible characters. God continually chooses the smallest person, the one the world overlooks, the one that messes up big-time. He even opts to work through the person with the bad reputation.

Case in point: Rahab. You may remember her story from the book of Joshua in the Old Testament. The Israelites are about to cross the Jordan into the Promised Land after wandering in the wilderness for 40 years. Their leader, Joshua, sends some spies to check out Jericho, the first city they will need to defeat in order to possess the land. When the spies encounter danger, God uses Rahab, a “lady of the evening” to hide the spies on her roof. She realizes that these men are representatives of the Almighty God. Seeing that her city had no chance to stand against the Lord, Rahab sides with the Israelites instead of her own people. She makes up a cover story to protect the spies and then lets them out of the window of her home (conveniently located in the city wall) for a quick escape. Her quick thinking helped the Israelite nation defeat the city of Jericho.

If God planned to destroy the wicked city of Jericho, why did He save a prostitute? His grace shines out as He chooses a broken, imperfect woman to further His plan for His chosen people and the world. Rahab was a sinner, no doubt about it. She led a life that was immoral. Improper. Indecent. Most likely the majority of the citizens of Jericho shunned her. Yet God reached out—and gave her faith.

I love the lessons of grace from the life of Rahab:

Lesson One: God uses imperfect people.

If I were in God’s position, I doubt I would have chosen a prostitute to save my people. I’ll bet a city councilman or prominent merchant also had a home in the city wall and he could have used his influence to save the spies. God could have chosen to work through an “important” person.

But He chose Rahab. The Bible continues to emphasize the fact that God uses broken people when it mentions Rahab in the New Testament. Hebrews 11:31 and James 2:25 both praise this Old Testament woman, yet continue to identify her as “Rahab the prostitute.” You’d think after 600 years, the poor woman could get a break from her shameful past. But I think Scripture includes her former profession as an encouragement that speaks to our own weaknesses. It tells us, “See, God loves broken people. He can take the shame and inadequacies of His baptized and forgiven daughters and turn them into spectacular triumph.”

Lesson Two: Know you may not see all the success that your faith brings about.

Rahab had a long-lasting effect on the history of Israel and the salvation of the world. Because of her help, when the Israelites defeated Jericho they purposely saved Rahab and her family. She and her family all became part of the Israelite nation. Later, Rahab married a prominent Jewish citizen and became the great-great-grandmother of King David. She is also mentioned in Matthew’s genealogy of Jesus.

Rahab did see an immediate result of her faith in the saving of the Israelite spies and her own family. But I doubt she lived to see her great-great grandson become king of Israel and she would have had no clue that she would become an ancestress of the Savior of the world. We can’t always witness the successful results of a faithful life.

Perhaps you think: I’m only a stay-at-home mom to a couple of unruly boys. But consider a possible scenario. One of those boys grows up to become a teacher. His kindness leads one of the boys in his class to believe in Christ. As a teenager, this young man starts to volunteer at a soup kitchen where he befriends a drug addict who learns about the grace of God. This grace turns her life around. Years later, this former drug addict teaches a Bible study at her church where her remarkable story inspires another young woman visiting the church. She decides to join the congregation. She’s “just” a stay-at-home mom who brings her children to church every Sunday so they can learn about the life-changing Gospel. One of her sons….

We can’t know the full success God works through our frailties and flaws. We can only trust that God will work through us as we act with His gift of faith in our hearts.

When You Feel Unqualified for Success

Rahab became a key component in the success of the destruction of Jericho. Don’t you love how God used a flawed woman—one certainly unqualified for success? Her role in the defeat of Jericho demonstrates that God doesn’t wait until we’re accomplished, cleaned-up, and respectable before He can work through us. He uses us in our less-than-perfect state. Even when the world looks down on us, shuns us, or overlooks us, He allows us to be a part of His plan to bring victory to His people and glory to His name.

When you feel too damaged and deficient to matter, remember that God uses flawed people.

Success in God’s kingdom does not depend on our qualifications.

This post is adapted from my new book, Measured by Grace: How God Defines Success. If you’ve ever felt like your life is a mess or that it’s too small to make any difference, read how God defines success!

This book studies eight “failures” in the Bible–people who either made a big mess of their lives or simply didn’t look like a success in the eyes of the world. By examining their lives you’ll discover that God redeems our failures and doesn’t measure us by wealth or fame. He measures us by His grace!

You can find out more about this eight-week Bible study book and download the first chapter here.

How Does God Measure Success?

How does God measure success?

When I examine how our culture measures success, it certainly looks like the world’s success meter rises with every dollar earned, promotion granted, or trophy won, and plummets with each financial loss, professional downfall, or athletic defeat.

But how does God measure success? When we examine the life of Joseph in the Old Testament, we discover how different God’s definition of success is from the world’s definition. Genesis 39:3 tells us this about Joseph, “the Lord caused all that he did to succeed in his hands.” When did he experience this success? When he was the favored child of his father Jacob, wearing a beautiful coat that set him apart from his siblings? No, the Bible tells us that God made Joseph successful when he was a slave in Egypt. Working for Potiphar, a captain in Pharaoh’s guard.

Another verse in Genesis tells us something similar about Joseph, “Whatever he did, the Lord made it succeed” (Genesis 39:23). When did this success occur? When he worked for Pharaoh? When he was second-in-command of the land of Egypt? No, Joseph’s success happened while suffering in prison. Working for the prison keeper.

In these unlikely places, God granted Joseph success.

Is This Success?

But I wonder: Did it feel like success to Joseph? Before prison, the work he did for Potiphar made the Egyptian’s home thrive. His master noticed Joseph’s excellent efforts and gave him more and more responsibility, until “he left all that he had in Joseph’s charge” (Genesis 39:6). The jailer, too, noticed Joseph’s excellent management skills and put him in charge of the prisoners. (This in itself is remarkable. Who would put one inmate in charge of others?) Even one of the other prisoners benefited from Joseph’s unique abilities. Joseph’s interpretation of the cupbearer’s dream came true and this servant of Pharaoh was released from jail. Everything Joseph did turned to gold—for someone else.

If someone had said to Joseph, “The Lord was with Joseph, and he became a successful man” (Genesis 39:2), he might have laughed out loud. Scripture tells us Joseph was seventeen years old when his brothers sold him into slavery (Genesis 37:2) and thirty years old when Pharaoh made him second-in-command (Genesis 41:46). Joseph spent thirteen years as a slave and a prisoner. I doubt he would have described himself as successful.

Not only do I find it remarkable that the Bible describes Joseph as successful when he is a slave and a prisoner, but it doesn’t label him a success when he later becomes Pharaoh’s right-hand man and saves the country from starvation. This doesn’t seem to make sense.

Joseph had success when he served as a slave and languished in jail, but not when he became the second-most powerful man in the world? Throughout the account of the famine and Joseph collecting grain and selling it to the people, preventing nationwide starvation, the Bible doesn’t include a phrase like “the Lord caused everything Joseph did to succeed.”

Perhaps Scripture omits the phrase because Joseph’s success is so obvious, there’s no need to point it out. But perhaps the omission of the word success when Joseph clearly obtains it demonstrates how God defines that word.

Success in God’s Eyes

Success in the world looks big—stadiums filled with fans. Success in the world looks impressive—fancy corner offices with diplomas on the walls. Success looks like fame—names on brightly lit marquees.

But success in God’s eyes doesn’t necessarily look big or impressive.

The Hebrew word for “success” in Genesis 39 is salah. It means “to advance, prosper, make progress, succeed, be profitable.”7 The word sometimes portrays worldly success that even evil people can achieve, such as in Psalm 37:7: “Fret not yourself over the one who prospers [salah] in his way, over the man who carries out evil devices!” But usually, success in the Old Testament doesn’t happen without the Lord’s help.

The success the Bible talks about is not primarily worldly prosperity but submission to the Lord and living in His presence. In Joseph’s story, God described Joseph as successful when he was a slave and a prisoner. God measures our success based on our dependence on Him.

Success is Doing Your Best Wherever You Find Yourself

One of the lessons we can learn from Joseph’s life is: Do your best in whatever position you find yourself.

When Joseph was a slave, he could have moped and complained to God and done his work half-heartedly, but the Bible doesn’t tell us so. As a slave, he could not have avoided work, but I doubt Potiphar would have put Joseph in charge of his household if Joseph had made only minimal effort.

Whatever work you find yourself doing—balancing the books, teaching rambunctious preschoolers, running a multinational corporation, scrubbing muddy floors—know that God notices your vocation.
You are doing important work even if the world says it’s lowly. Colossians 3:23–24 says,

“Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You are serving the Lord Christ.”

Do your best because you serve a God who is gracious to you.

Although we may view our lives as disappointments, God declares them triumphant when we trust Him to complete the work He has given us—great or small.

This post is adapted from my new book, Measured by Grace: How God Defines Success. If you’ve ever felt like your life is a mess or that it’s too small to make any difference, read how God defines success!

This book studies eight “failures” in the Bible–people who either made a big mess of their lives or simply didn’t look like a success in the eyes of the world. By examining their lives you’ll discover that God redeems our failures and doesn’t measure us by wealth or fame. He measures us by His grace!

You can find out more about this eight-week Bible study book here.

Top 10 Posts of 2020

Good-bye 2020! Hello 2021! 2020 certainly had its challenges and we all hope for a better year ahead, but before we leave it behind, it helps to take stock of time past. So, let’s look at the top 10 posts of 2020.

If you missed any of these, you can catch up now!

10 Reminders of God’s Relentless Love For You

This article seems to be the one people turn to the most when they need to remember that God’s love never fails! God’s Word is always available as a continual source of I-love-yous. This post has a list of some of my favorite Scripture passages that speak of God’s constant love for you.

Five Creative Ways to Encourage Someone

When we feel tired and discouraged we all need someone to come alongside and encourage us. Hebrews 10:24 instructs us to give each other that needed encouragement: Let’s see how inventive we can be in encouraging love and helping out. (MSG). This post has five ways we can share positive words with the people in our lives.

When You’re Feeling Overwhelmed: Do One Thing

It’s no wonder this post was popular in 2020. We all felt overwhelmed! This post talks about what I did in a season of overwhelm when my husband was diagnosed with cancer. It also talks about my book Distracted that can help you live a more focused life.

When You’re Feeling Unsettled, Dissastified

Recognize that unsettled, dissatisfied sensation in your soul? This post may help you as you discover that God already knows what you need and provides it for you!

Three Ways to Cool Down Angry Words

How can we cool down our angry words before they search and destroy like heat-seeking missiles?   This post contains three suggestions to put into practice.

4 Reasons To Care For Your Soul

We often neglect the care of our soul. After all, it doesn’t scream in pain or announce a problem with a 102 degree fever. We may neglect the soul for a long time before it demands attention, but this post has four reasons not to neglect this important part of ourselves.

10 Ways God’s Love Changes You

This post talks about an experiment I tried in daily contemplating God’s unfailing love for me. The results made me search through God’s Word for the ways His love transforms my life. Find out about the experiment and the transforming nature of God’s love here.

The Essential Guide to Verse Mapping: Step One

Do you need a fresh new way to study the Bible in 2021? If you haven’t tried verse mapping before you’ll want to look at this post which is the first in a series of five articles outlining the process. I love the way this study technique helps me dive deep into a Bible passage.

Live Like You’re Loved

This post talks about how we can live loved. It describes one practice that we can use to immerse ourselves in God’s love. You’ll also discover how to get my free ebook, LIVE LOVED: 5 Practices to Fully Experience God’s Relentless Love.

A Love Affair With God

How do you view your relationship with the Lord? As a set of dos and don’ts with a judge? Or as a passionate love affair with God? This post will show you how God wants to have an intimate relationship with you. Also, learn about my new book, God’s Relentless Love: A Study of Hosea.

Scripture Memory: Verses to Get You Out of An Emotional Basement

I always good intentions with Scripture memory. Over the years I have memorized (and forgotten) dozens of Bible verses.

I love God’s Word–a healthy dose of it is what gets me through each day.

But memorizing? I’ve not been very consistent in committing Scripture to heart. Somehow it’s been like every other diet I’ve been on. I’m faithful for awhile and then let it drop.

Lately though, I’ve realized that having Scripture in my head and heart make a big difference in my outlook on life. Without regular review of God’s words to me, my mood is more dependent on my circumstances, I’m more susceptible to negative attacks from the enemy, and my prayer life suffers.

So at the beginning of this new year, I’m picking up a habit I never should have dropped. Like the psalmist, I want to store God’s word in my heart.

I have hidden your word in my heart
    that I might not sin against you. Psalm 119:11

Verses to Get you Out of An Emotional Basement

But maybe you don’t know where to begin with Scripture memory. What verses should you choose? What version of the Bible should you use? My suggestion is to use the version that you most often read out of and store up verses that speak to your heart.

I especially love memorizing Scripture verses that speak of God’s love for me. When the world beats me down, when I doubt my worth, these are the verses that consistently pull me out of any emotional basement I get into:

All beautiful you are, my darling; there is no flaw in you. (Song of Songs 4:7 NIV 1984)

The Lord delights in those who fear Him, who put their hope in His unfailing love. (Psalm 147:11 NIV 1984)

As the bridegroom rejoices over the bride, so shall your God rejoice over you. (Isaiah 62:5 ESV)

The Lord your God is in your midst, a mighty one who will save; He will rejoice over you with gladness; He will quiet you by His love; He will exult over you with loud singing. (Zephaniah 3:17 ESV)

How great is the love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! (1 John 3:1 NIV 1984)

The Lord’s unfailing love surrounds the one who trusts in him. (Psalm 32:10b)

Since you are precious and honored in my sight, and because I love you, I will give people in exchange for you, nations in exchange for your life. (Isaiah 43:4)

My salvation and my honor depend on God; he is my mighty rock, my refuge. (Psalm 62:7)

Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. (Matthew 11:28-29)

Easy Steps to Memorizing Scripture

I encourage you to begin storing up some favorite verses. Don’t be intimidated. Here are some tips to begin memorizing.

Start with one verse.

Write it on a sticky note.

Post it where you will see it often.

Read it out loud every day and then try to say it without looking at the note.

By the end of the week you will have one verse memorized.

I have heard it said that when we memorize Scripture we are giving the Holy Spirit the opportunity to speak to us in His language. When we store God’s Word in our minds, He can easily bring them to mind when we need them. That way, when you’re discouraged, disappointed, or hurt, the Spirit will bring out of storage the exact encouragement you need.

Next step: Pick one of the verses above. Or one of your own. Follow the easy steps to memorizing God’s Word. Scripture memory will help you hear the Spirit’s encouraging voice!

Grace for the Overwhelmed

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Are you feeling overwhelmed? Drowning in despair? Floundering in mountains of tasks, duties, and responsibilities?

Find grace for your life in Psalm 3.

Just a little background about this psalm.

The book of Psalms is divided into five “books” or divisions. Psalm 3 is, of course, part of Book 1 (Psalms 1-41). This first book of Psalms is sometimes called the Yahweh Psalter because Yahweh is the name for God that is used most often in this section. Most of the psalms in the “Yahweh Psalter” were written by David.

Scholars have classified the psalms into several categories including: wisdom psalms, hymns, and laments. Psalm 3 is described at a psalm of individual lament. Characteristics of lament psalms are: they often begin with an invocation such as, “Oh, Lord” and they contain a plea for help.

But what I love about this psalm is that it gives hope to the overwhelmed.

David himself was overwhelmed by his enemies when he wrote the psalm. It was written when almost the whole nation of Israel rose up against him–including his own son Absalom.

It’s no wonder he cries out in despair:

O Lord, how many are my foes! Many are rising against me, many are saying of my soul, there is no salvation for him in God. (Psalm 3:1-2)

Don’t you love it that we can call out to God whenever we feel beaten down and crushed by life? Yes, the world may doubt that God can help, but we who know the Lord are confident of His help.

And that is what David says next:

But you, O Lord, are a shield about me, my glory, and the lifter of my head. I cried aloud to the Lord, and he answered me from his holy hill. (Psalm 3:3-4)

David doesn’t stay in lament mode for long. He quickly acknowledges God’s protection and blessing. He reminds himself that Yahweh hears his prayers.

David is so confident of the Lord’s help, that he goes to sleep:

I lay down and slept; I woke again, for the Lord sustained me. I will not be afraid of many thousands of people who have set themselves against me all around. (Psalm 3:5-6)

God wants us to be so sure of His strength and love that we can rest in Him. Even though thousands of people (or dozens of problems) are against us, we don’t have to be afraid if God is on our side.

Arise, O Lord! Save me, O my God! For you strike all my enemies on the cheek; you break the teeth of the wicked. Salvation belongs to the Lord; your blessing be on your people! (Psalm 3:7-8)

In the end, David call out to God again. He reminds himself that God is the one who saves.

I have to admit that when I’m feeling overwhelmed, I don’t always turn to God first.

I often try to fix things myself. I read more self-help books about time management. I look up information on getting organized–thinking that will help overcome my problems.

Psalm 3 reminds me that God is the “lifter of my head”–the one who gives victory. He is my shield–a Protector against my troubles. He is my Savior.

Yahweh is always available to listen. He longs for me to come to Him for help. Share on XWhen I turn to Him the Lord gives rest even in the midst of the chaos.

Are you feeling overwhelmed? Turn to the Lord for help.

Next step: David laments about his many enemies. What or who are the enemies in your life? Difficult people? A multitude of bills? Overwhelming schedule? Write a list and then take it to God. Ask Him for wisdom and power to conquer the foes. Find rest in Him.

7 Tips for Scripture Memory

Perhaps when you think of Scripture memory you think of your days in Sunday School or VBS. You diligently memorized the required verses so you could get a gold star or a cool prize. But probably as soon as Sunday School or VBS was over, you promptly forgot those Scriptures.

I know that’s what happened to me. I think it was because I fixed the words in my mind, but not in my heart.

Deuteronomy 11:18 says:

“Fix these words of mine in your hearts and minds.”

God does not want us to memorize His Word as an intellectual exercise only. Yes, any kind of memorization requires concentration and repetition. But if we are only memorizing the words and not the message the words won’t go deep into our souls.

Scripture memory is an exercise of the heart. Through His Word, God tells us over and over again of His love for us. And when we store those words in our hearts, we can pull them up anytime we are discouraged, frustrated, hurt, ridiculed, or even downright depressed.

As we fix God’s Word in our minds and our hearts it changes us. The words weave into the fiber of our souls and transform our attitudes and emotions. The words refashion our purpose and our will.

God wants you to fix Scripture in your mind and heart not as an intellectual exercise but as exercise of love.

But memorizing anything can be hard. So today here are 7 tips I use to help me memorize Scripture.

  1. Choose verses that are meaningful to you. If a verse speaks to your heart, you will be much more likely to remember it. You will pull it out of your memory banks often when you need encouragement or peace.
  2. Write the verse on a card that you post by your computer or sink. Review it while you are waiting for the computer to boot up or while you are washing dishes.
  3. Say the verse out loud. Seeing and hearing the verse will help you fuse it to your memory. When you speak the words it helps your mind to store them securely.
  4. Memorize phrase by phrase. Read one phrase then try to say it without looking.
  5. Memorize the reference. Say the reference before and after the verse so you can also remember where to find your favorite Scriptures.
  6. Review, review, review. Keep a file of verses you have memorized and review them periodically.
  7. Recite the verse or verses you are memorizing while you are walking, doing chores, or like me–when you are trying to go to sleep.

Lately, I have found Scripture memory to be especially useful when I can’t sleep at night. Somehow when I lay my head on my pillow, I immediately think of all the stupid things I did that day. Or my anxiety about getting everything done resurfaces. Even after I have prayed, confessed, and turned over my worries to God, my mind will run over the concerns like a hamster on an exercise wheel.

But recently I have started using the verses I have memorized as my new hamster wheel. I get off the wheel of regret and worry and hop on the wheel of God’s Word.

Here are a few of the verses that have been especially helpful:

  • “The Lord’s unfailing love surrounds the man who trusts in him.” Psalm 32:10b
  • “And so we know and rely on the love God has for us. God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in him.” 1 John 4:16
  • “Grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ.” Ephesians 3:18b

As I run over these verses again and again, God gives me peace, contentment,…and sleep.

As you fix God’s words in your minds and hearts, you will discover a transformation of your thinking, a confidence of God’s love for you, and lasting peace in your heart.